Love Languages | Men and women speak different languages | “I don’t care” usually has a meaning other than “I don’t care”, I just need to figure out what that meaning really is. |
Perspective VS Reality | What are several things that are important to your spouse. Do you think they would write the same things? |
Words Of Affirmation | One of the five love languages |
Build Up Or Tear Down | I can lift her up in private but what a powerful things when it gets back to her things I have said about her to others that build her up | Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. KJV |
Build Up Or Tear Down | My words have the power to build up, encourage, fortify or destroy the one who I am speaking to or about | Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. KJV |
The Hag | What I heard a man call his wife in conversation one time and how that affected me, and still affects my opinion of him rather than her all these years later |
Firemen VS Judges | Where there is a fire I | · Am not at first trying to figure out what caused it and who I can blame but am more concerned about putting it out · My job at this moment is to protect my spouse and my family from getting burned |
After The Fire | After a fire happens I | · Should spend some time with my spouse trying to safeguard it from happening again · Determine ways to protect my family and those around me from getting burned |
Where There Is Smoke | Philippians 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, KJV Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. KJV | A smoldering ember can still burn down a house, or a marriage, or a family |
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